@denydenzig You may find this article, originally published in the WSJ, interesting:
http://www.hseverywhere.com/index.php/blogs/139-students-pick-easier-majors-despite-less-pay
Laszlo Bock at Google thought she was making a serious mistake, but I think she made the correct decision.
Prof Kenneth Andersen explained why STEM grade so harshly here, and his advice to his daughter is precious:
I think the way to go is to know what you want out of life, then design a realistic method of getting there.
There is no correct answer to your questions, only trade offs.