<p>OP, may I please remind you of why you started this thread? You asked us here, </p>
<p>“How do you overcome these injustices on the college app without whining, self-pitying, etc? Is my town the only one like this?”</p>
<p>In your thread, you’ve dismissed every suggestion offered. </p>
<p>Private schools? you say that yours in NJ have “no standards, been there, pulled them out.” </p>
<p>Tutoring to fix your daughter’s math skills? No, you need the tests back for the tutor to see. How about a tutor who’s smarter and doesn’t need the tests? (no response)</p>
<p>You are fighting your district on this thread. Many people have tried to advise you. I’ve also tried very patiently to suggest that I think you can’t fix your district, but should tend to your daughter.</p>
<p>You want to compare your job’s difficulties to mine, which gets your D nowhere. </p>
<p>If I were you, I’d focus on getting your daughter into the best possible college, by culling the good from her surroundings and not expressing herself as the victim. I’m sorry she tanked in a math class and I’m sorry you were ill-served by your district. </p>
<p>My eldest kids went to a school district that did not care about the college-bound because of gang fighting in the hallways. Their GC’s spent time bailing kids out of jail, not able to help the college-bound kids much. (Talk about hard-working, those GC’s were the bomb, but no attention for my law-abiding kids!) But my son and daughter refused to play the pity card on their applications. You live in a typical NJ suburb. It’s not distinguished in education, obviously, from the way you describe it. WIth character, kids do apply from such schools and get into good colleges, when they make maximum use of the resources available to them. </p>
<p>My D had a hard time in Math, including some C’s and D’s, but wrote about it on her essay as her struggle and discussed (briefly) how she intended to seek remediation in college. It was unfortunate but she didn’t chastise anyone over it. My youngest had some math trouble, too, so took the courses in the summer when he could focus on just Math. It was a weak point on otherwise strong applications. My hope is that the Adcoms who admitted them saw their response to difficulty, weighed it against their other achievements in the humanities and performing arts, and took them anyway. </p>
<p>I hope I’m demonstrating what a good teacher shows, which is care for YOUR student’s situation.</p>
<p>And no, I got a “perfect attendance” award for 0 absences my first year out of teaching college, so I can’t relate to anyone who misses a lot of time.</p>