<p>I’m with Pizzagirl. If a parent has an objection strong enough that it would keep them from allowing the school to be chosen in the end, now is the time for the veto, not next April. Applications should only be sent to schools that both the student and parents find acceptable. Not every one needs to be a favorite of all, but they need to be schools all could see the student attending. Parents and student need to be on the same page.</p>
<p>I also think it is the responsibility of all involved to research and explore each school of serious interest to either student or parents, and not just summarily reject them based on preconceived notions. Keep an open mind and find out what makes the suggested school appealing. You, and in this case your H, may just discover that the school is a potential great fit.</p>