Yes, when I was in college, they were all asking about if you were pregnant and/or needed birth control. They weren’t helpful about much else.
I had S’s freshman room mate’s mom’s phone number and email. We traded a few emails but never chatted and I never asked her about S. I never have had any of D’s room mates’ contact info. They listed my friend who lives a 30 minute drive away as their emergency contact.
OP, so glad your D is doing better. It’s scary being so far away when they’re doing poorly. It’s such a helpless feeling and one I endure a lot with a D who has chronic health issues.