I’ll just note for anyone in the future that choosing what college you will likely attend based on whether you personally got along with your prospie host like #2 describes is nuts. Prospie weekends are highly artificial environments and a lot of randomness goes into them. Especially do not decide based on whether you liked your host, as opposed to less random factors like culture or the campus.
Think to yourself, “would a rational person make a $200,000 decision based on the information I have gleaned?” and act accordingly.