Where should I apply to for college with my budget?

This is very general. How do you know the parents ‘should get’ the tax credit? To qualify for the AOTC the income has to be below $80k-$90k for a single parent, or $160-180k for a married couple. The student has to have paid QEE (tuition, books, fees). The parent has to have tax liability as only $1000 each year is a refundable credit.

Getting the $2500 credit each year is not guaranteed, and the parents may not be willing to give it to the student if they have already committed $30k per year to college expenses.

Don’t spend other people’s money.