I think having her do early tours of some local colleges could be really helpful. For us, UWi-Madison for a large instate public and Lawrence U for a SLAC were useful for him to be able to start to verbalize more concretely what he wanted in a college (even though we knew he wasn’t applying to either of those schools). Touring schools he wasn’t “interested in” for him was great as well as I felt he was more brutally honest with his opinions.
If you are on the bookface, there is a very active Dance Parents info board with a few pinned resources you may find useful as well.