Where To Get 17k in Loans?

I see you got accepted to Michigan.

The school uses the CSS profile in addition to your FAFSA. The CSS profile takes a deeper look at your finances. They say your family can pay 40k, your parents say they can pay 20k - big disconnect.

This means your tuition is going to be more than 50k each year for the next 4 years. Your parents are telling you Michigan is not an affordable option for your family and this may be a real disappointment to you. You are going to have to let this go.

Did you apply to any SUNY schools (Bing, UB, Stony Brook, Albany)?