My bad, I forgot that OP is a US citizen, which changes things for CMU. They’re need aware but meet need (95+% meet need is “meet need” in my book since only borderline students don’t see their need met, however CMU are need aware and not very generous so OP would need to run the NPC to see if they’d qualify for enough and then they should keep in mind that their EFC is likely to keep them out due to CMU’s relatively low endowment compared to other colleges.)
Run the NPC on NYU, clicking on “income 30-39k” and you should find they expect that family to pay 26k a year… the exception is HEOP students since part of their fees are paid by NYSED, especially NYC HEOP students who commute.
OP can also look into Case Western (D3) and Northeastern (D1 Atlantic conference but non traditional college due to the co-op system).
If you like the co-op system, apply to UCincinnati and its Honors College before Dec 1. Pioneer of co-op education. Offers highly selective "honors within honors’ programs to boot (but your 1.8/1500 would qualify you).