Which national bank has most retail branches in the NE region?

Haha…just like you said, my wife has the tendency to take a fistful of checking account deposit slips with her whenever she visits the bank branch closest to where we live (the branch is less than 5 minutes drive away from our apartment.) She likes to fill out the deposit slip at home (and checks it 5 times – you can tell what her personality is. A problem for her to use ANY online system is that she tends to double/tripple/quadruple-checks what she has filled out, and the system often times out for security reason before she has a chance to submit it. This is also another reason why she does not like to use any online system.

“Depositing Cash” will be an option likely acceptable to my wife. She could withdraw the money from her account and deposit the money to DS’s account in the same bank (since we all have accounts in the same bank), without the need to leave the bank.

I do not know (and do not care) what our son will do. We just care what we (especially my wife, as she is the one who does this in our family almost exclusively – I even could not remember the user ID and password to all of our accounts) will do on our end.

Another financial writer (who seems to be in his 20s or 30s) wrote something about digital money transfer. This 60-something may learn a thing or two from this young man? It seems all he wanted to do is to send money to family members or friends. Here is what he wrote; (it was an article written in 2014 though. But some of the P2P like clearXchange or Popmoney (embedded into your bank’s website instead of another user ID/password to set up and keep track of) have been out since 2011. I bet between 2014 and 2016, there could be zillions of “software upgrades”. Hopefully, from 2011 to 2016, this kind of online software could be more robust already after all these software upgrades in the past 5+ years.

I think he had a point when he wrote the trust issue is the most critical one (when a large amount of money is transferred) in this paragraph:

“the likes of Google Wallet, Square Cash and PayPal can never earn the amount of consumer trust that exists when someone knows their money is moving between two financial institutions, as opposed to a middleman”

"Having embraced the digital-banking lifestyle, banks haven’t received much face-time from me. From credit card bills to the monthly paycheck, most of my money flows in an automated system that requires almost no effort on my part. And, it’s been great. The less I have to deal with the physical aspects of banking, the more I’ve come to appreciate my banks, JPMorgan Chase and Ally Financial.
But, no matter how streamlined my finances are, there is one thing that has proven to be a regular nuisance. It’s the need for a no-cost method of sending money to and from family and friends, without the friction that requires recipients to provide hard-to-remember information like account numbers and routing numbers.

In two recent situations, I struggled to come up with ways to make and receive personal payments from family and friends.

First, a friend who uses Citibank opted to just go to the ATM to get cash for me. I knew he could have used Citibank’s person-to-person payments feature (through Popmoney), but I didn’t want to deal with signing up for a Popmoney account. This is far too common of an occurrence that prevents more use of P-to-P payments.

Second, I wanted to send money to a family member who uses Bank of America. Just like the above example, the relative didn’t want to deal with entering hard-to-find information to collect money through Chase QuickPay, which I would have used to make the transfer.
I recalled that Bank of America and Chase are both founding members of clearXchange, a P-to-P payment network that would allow customers of member banks to send money to each other with just an email address or phone number. According to the FAQs, there is no fee to send or receive money, which is all any consumer can ask for.

With Bank of America and Wells Fargo as founding members, clearXchange would allow me to send and receive money easily through Chase. To my dismay, Chase is not yet capable of providing P-to-P payments through the clearXchange network. Considering this network formed two years ago, I’d expect the service to be available already.

As for the relative’s payment, she wrote a check, which I immediately deposited through my smartphone. It’s a waste of a check and the process required more effort and resources than an electronic method of sending funds.

The argument for third-party services may be brought into the discussion, but the likes of Google Wallet, Square Cash and PayPal can never earn the amount of consumer trust that exists when someone knows their money is moving between two financial institutions, as opposed to a middleman.

In the next year, I would like to see Chase finally incorporate clearXchange’s P-to-P payment services, so that I may continue to bank with more ease. Furthermore, I can see clearXchange’s value proposition to become attractive to more banks, especially the nation’s largest financial institutions (the network recently added its first nonfounding member bank)."

@mcat2 : “I even could not remember the user ID and password to all of our accounts.”

Unfortunately, this is true for my husband as well. He has locked me out of our checking account at least three times since late last year. Even when I walk him through it, if I am cutting veggies or something and my hands are not free, he manages to trigger the lockout feature.

We have decided he is simply far more comfortable and capable of working with the ATM, the tellers or the banker with whom we will sit. Reaching that decision has finally introduced a measure of peace regarding what he can, and cannot, do.

It helps to know these things, and to be able to live with them as we work around them, or work something out.

@Waiting2exhale, It is true that some people are just not good at doing something, to the extent that they are not even willing to learn to do it.

Recently, at many (larger) Chase branches here, they install many giant-sized, ugly-looking ATM-like machines in front of most teller windows (and there is only one teller (occasionally two) most time for the whole branch.) When some “helper” from the bank tries to urge my wife to use the machine, she would say to that person: I do not want to use the machine. When that person says the machine is easy to use and she could help her. My wife’s reply: I do not want to learn how to use the machine and I would rather wait for the teller. She would rather wait patiently in line even if it means she may need to wait for quite a long time, sometimes 15-20 minutes (at BOA, the waiting time could be even longer.) The point is that she is willing to wait for quite a long time, rather than "learn the new way, i.e., to use the machine. However, she is darned good at “dealing with our kid” – this is a more important skill than online banking.

Been off the grid. Ten pages to answer a question about banking. Only on cc :slight_smile:
BTW, if one double, triple, quadruple checks online info, an account will give you the option to stay active before timing out. That’s a nonissue. And as for tellers, humans make more mistakes than machines. Just saying.
If your wife doesn’t want to use online banking or ATMs that’s her choice. But to drag you to the bank with her seems unreasonable. Your choice.

But MCAT didn’t like the lines at his branch, didn’t trust the human tellers, one who dealt with the wife (or both) had to ask a question! A friend had a problem, a blogger said this or that, someone ‘might’ forget a password…

Hundreds of millions of dollars transfer betwen banks daily. It works. Every transfer includes info on the source and destination.

The modern era is not for chickens. Step up or step back. If you don’t want to use online or an ATM then don’t. Write a check or hand him cash. I don’t know how many times this thread can go over and over that she is distrusting. Or what someone, somewhere, experienced. Doesn’t it give a headache?

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After 10 pages, I think the OP has enough info to make a decision or do further research on his/her own. There is nothing to be said that has not been said already. Closing thread.