<p>", his shoulders were relaxed and his smile was more ready than usual." - That’s great. One of the first pieces of advise I got from other parents is that “you’ll know” when you hit the right campus. The kid walks different, more comfortably.". It’s not always clear cut, but it’s neat when you can get that positive vibe. (Note - I don’t think it happens so much on summer tours with few students around. But Accepted Students weekends are great for getting a feel for current and future students.)</p>