<p>My S who works in PE, has been told by numerous colleagues not to get married. Last Friday at 10PM, he and a colleague found themselves still working at the office and his colleague lamented that if he doesn’t work hard, he would lose his job and if he does (=long hours), like going home after 10 PM on a Friday night, he would catch hell from his wife. Choosing an understanding and sympathetic spouse is very important in this type of work.</p>