<p>I’m not “encouraging” any type of behavior. My position is neutral. I do not assume that men serving alcohol at their (private) parties, which no one is forced to attend, are trying to “change” anyone’s mind about sex. My approach is to assume, absent actual, real life facts to the contrary, these adult women are attending these parties willingly, consuming alcohol voluntarily, and are freely engaging in sex as they are entitled to do, without judging them to be helpless, brainless pawns or victims of some powerful, patriarchal force. That is not what I have observed in my own experience as a Greek, nor heard about from my kids. </p>