Why must this process be so soulcrushing?

You probably already know some of this but have you checked with prospective Architecture schools for them to guide you on what courses you’re currently taking (or not) might transfer over. S23 enrolled in Architecture (5 year BArch) which time and again while visiting various schools we were told “we really don’t take transfers into this program”. I know UTAustin and NC State are 5 year programs. Not sure of the other schools. But you may need to steer more towards a 4 year program to get the credit of your AA and then continue on for a MA if you want to be licensed.