Once she accepts SC and turns down UCSB,and you make a statement like that, how can you stop - even if she’s not living up to the terms you set ?
What’s her plan this fall ? Just work or still school ?
You know the right answer. You mentioned it in your first post. But now you are trying to justify like your daughter has already decided. I get it. It’s very hard to say no to our kids. My daughter steamrolls me daily although she knew the college budget and understood that schools that came in above were instantly eliminated.
I am also concerned that maybe she doesn’t really know what business is - academically - based on earlier comments in the thread.