<p>I am not saying, I am going to include his phone number in the essay its not going to be like "oh and by the way you can contact him at XXX-XXX-XXXX. I meant if they ask me to provide a phone number I don’t want them questioning him about the death of his mom. I don’t mind if they question him about the person I am or how I was as a tutor or how close we are, but not about his mother.</p>