@bigtuna1284: It seems obvious to me that you applied to 3 schools too many. You seem to realize that but are confused as to which three schools you should not have applied.
I love lobster & I love the ocean. But I prefer National Universities. Nevertheless, my preferences should not matter to you. My point is that you have not shared enough information about yourself in order to equip one to make a meaningful recommendation.
If I were to pick based on quality of life, attendance at either LAC would have to include at least a year away from campus in a study exchange program or in a study abroad program. Both Williams College & Bowdoin College participate in such programs. Have you thought about the smallness of living in an LAC community ? See @Coloradomama’s post #8 above.
In general, I think that the transition from high school to an LAC is easier than to a National University during one’s first year. After the first year, there is a risk that the LAC environment becomes too small & lacking in privacy. But that is my perspective, and I am not you.
In short, you have four outstanding choices.