<p>I am sorry that your daughter didn’t get into her 1st choice school but I think you were reading between the line and twisting the words because you are upset for her. I didn’t see anything cruel about it , just in the way you interpreted it
I have read only one letter of rejection , but I would have to say it was just about identicle to this. It was from a school that my daughter had little interest in and wouldn’t have attended had she been accepted .
I am sure that wherever your daughter does attend, she will be happy and thrive</p>