That’s correct. It wouldn’t quite be a 40k difference, since OSU is about 20 – but it certainly would be a lot more. However, to clarify @ucbalumnus , My parents have told me they want me to feel free to make my choice, and as long as I think one of the further options is the best choice, they will be willing and able to support it (and they would not need to take out any loans).
UNC is probably crossing that line, and so I have removed it from my list of possibilities. So where I’m left is essentially between Oregon, UMD, or GTech.
In answer to @tsbna44 , I’m not worried about the panic attack issue. It was due to one very specific issue in my life that happened to occur while I was in Maryland, and certainly not the fault of the school or something that would be more likely to continue if I was further away from home. It was just that the timing coincided with my tour, meaning I didn’t really get to experience the school in a good mental state – hopefully that clarifies.
I just feel torn. My parents can afford the out-of-state costs, and have said they are willing to. But It doesn’t stop me from knowing that it’s more of a burden than if they were to pay the in-state costs. It feels like everyone has a different opinion – of course, classmates suggest going for Georgia since it has the most name recognition to them, but I’ve disregarded that advice best I can. But still, some trusted family members have made compelling points that make me feel like the adventure of it all, the opportunity to be in a big pond surrounded by people who will be leaders in their fields, is something that is worth the cost.
On the other hand, maybe that’s silly. I don’t know how to feel about it. Any insights are appreciated