I am getting ready to send my third child to nd in August. We have had a child enrolled here continuously for 8 years. I can only speak for the experiences my kids have had, but they have had several friends who are openly gay and it has never been an issue. The culture of the kids and the school, as far as they are concerned, has been accepting to much that is against church teaching. They all seem to be rather matter of fact about it. Again I can only go by the experiences of my kids but it wouldnt seem to be an issue unless you make it one. Only you can decide what school is the right one for you but please don’t let worry about this one thing be the deciding factor. All of your choices are wonderful options with much to offer students, I do admit though that Notre Dame is a place I have come to dearly love and wish that everyone could experience!