<p>^NY, are you KIDDING me? The majority of the thread is at the least, minimizing, and at the worst, flippant and poking fun. Only a few people took her seriously and answered her question with kindness.</p>
<p>My response was based on everything I read up until “this thread is six months old.” That’s a harmless enough comment. My comments were about all the rest. As I read the thread, I began to feel protective of the OP! 
And so I spoke up.</p>