<p>Thank you all - so much - for your comments and guidance. As you can maybe imagine, this is a tough one for a parent. </p>
<p>I can’t imagine how it must be for my son deep on the inside since he is not officially “out” yet. This isn’t an issue that most people have to think about and it does help narrow the search, that’s for sure. ;)</p>
<p>I appreciate everything each of you has offered and if anyone has more to add, please do. </p>
<p>Z</p>