<p>@Pizzagirl If I’m changing in a room, it’s unlikely that anyone would see anymore of me than they would see at the beach or a swimming pool. We make these arbitrary distinctions like saying that it’s okay to be mostly naked in front of hundreds of strangers at the beach, and yet the same thing is so taboo and “not classy” in other settings. I’d be wearing the same kinds of clothes in both situations, so why should it bother me? FWIW, in high school I was both a band kid and a theater kid and everybody changed in front of everybody else in both activities, regardless of gender. It was never a big deal or a big taboo because nobody MADE it a big deal</p>