<p>OP again. First of all, I never stated or suggested that I could or should “do” anything, and in fact said quite the opposite, so the turn taken by the discussion about parental interference was quite off-topic (but not surprising–some posters just love taking a detour into controversial territory). I realize all I can do is lean on my kid to speak up–doubt that will happen. I posted to find out if my reaction was reasonable and whether this sort of thing was as unusual as I thought. And to vent, of course!</p>
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In this case, no. These were previously scheduled classes, and by semester’s end, the class will have met about half of the intended time.
I don’t see the analogy here at all. When I took time off from work for a pressing personal matter (which was certainly never as long as a month), I worked with my boss and colleagues to assure coverage of my work and stayed in close touch to offer help and make sure nothing fell through the cracks. I didn’t just disappear. “Courtesy” has nothing to do with it. And keep in mind that this professor didn’t even feel the need to explain her absence. She didn’t cite a family matter or anything else and didn’t apologize–which I think shows an unfortunate lack of respect for her students. For all they know she’s sunning herself on the Riviera.</p>
<p>Thanks everyone for your input. I think I’ve gotten all I can from this thread. But carry on if you like!</p>