<p>I’m not saying that she would be the weakest link at her college, but a college will not determine your child’s future. Her success or failure depends on her attitude and personality and work ethic, and various other personal factors - and not entirely on her college. There will not be a huge difference between Harvard and University of Chicago, or whatever. Sure, there’s a difference between Harvard and, say, the University of Arizona, but in such a case, a college counselor is not going to help a huge deal.</p>
<p>I understand that you want the best for your daughter, but in my opinion (which you by no means have to listen to) the best thing for her would be to allow her to independently apply to colleges and be entirely herself. Not only will it be a learning experience for her, but she’ll be better for it.</p>