There has been an unhealthy balance as far as support for the four children, with his children receiving more support than my own. However, with feedback from his own family, my husband is starting to see the error of his ways and is now contributing to support of my children. None of our children live with us and we do not give my children cars, computers, trips like we do his. I make half what my husband makes, yet I’ve always given to his children and supported them like my own; trying to balance the needs of all 4 children and not just the two. I do believe in building good traits in your children that produce initiative, a good work ethic, humility, and knowledge that the simpler thing in life bring you the greatest joy…the the material things. I do not encourage entitlement, there are differences between needs and wants and what we can afford for if considering all four children, not just two.