The super puzzling thing about this student at Yale is, given that she had financial aid and a pretty sweet situation that tens of thousands of high school kids will cut off their left arm to be in (that is, attend Yale), why wouldn’t she keep a lower profile and act more “normally” like other freshmen and not draw so much attention to herself??!! The BDSM, the 30 year old boyfriend, telling her suitemates she planned to bring men over for sex, not showering, etc.
It is almost like she WANTED to be caught out. Why not just simply enjoy the full “normal” Yale experience, which by wide reputation is one of the very best undergrad experiences available anywhere?