<p>I am a parent of one D at H and the other at Y. D1 is a cutthroat, competitive, type-A person, and is in heaven (she calls it “her element”) at H. D2 is a fun-loving, cooperative competitor (I call her a “stealth competitor”), and she is as happy as a clam at Y (so far anyway: she is a Frosh). I know those tend to be the stereotypes of H and Y students, but so far for us it seems to hold true. Good luck with your decision, and congratulations!</p>