<p>pacificbreeze,</p>
<p>I think you should just enjoy your childs years at Yale and not worry about what other people are doing. My son did choose Harvard, but after lots of consideration. He has many friends who chose other schools other than Harvard or Yale (even when they were admitted) because they felt a better fit elsewhere. No one that I know is saying anything to them as to why they chose those schools over Harvard and Yale. </p>
<p>Let it go and stop trying to make a point. Everyone is different.</p>