<p>No, I did not intend to be mean or unkind in any way. I am an adult college parent who read your post and thought that you wanted honest feedback. Stanford & Duke are serious reaches for you in my opinion, and applying ED/EA/SCEA will not be enough. Notre Dame is unlikely without substantial community service. NU & WashUStL are possible if you apply ED. NYU is not a reach for you.</p>