<p>“not to mention i am physically small too.”</p>
<p>I’m in the same boat.</p>
<p>The only guy who has liked me (or, the only guy who has ‘made a move’) is incredibly creepy… and that whole story exists upthread, I think…? Or on some other similar one…</p>
<p>My friend and I were talking, and decided that we were too independent to attract a guy. We don’t actually put time into impressing guys or flirting. We have our own lives. I mean, we’re not idiots who have no social lives… we just don’t constantly throw ourselves at guys in an attempt to ‘attract’ them.</p>