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How do I know if I'm ready for college?
infinity88
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I go to a school where anything above a 3.8W GPA is top 10%, where the average SAT score for non-AP students is 1100-1300, 1450-1800 for AP students, where the average amount of AP English homework is about 2 hours a week, where 4s and 5s on AP exams are rare, etc. Simply put, my high school is neither rigorous nor competitive.
I had a conversation with last year's valedictorian's(now attends a mid-tier UC) parents and they told me that college was a lot more difficult for their child who earned all As in high school and was now earning Cs in college.
I aspire to attend an intellectual and rigorous school with top math/science programs and high graduate school placement but I wonder if I'm really prepared for such schools. I have always been at the top of my class in math but when it comes to English there are always those who are stronger writers than I.
Although I excel in math courses, my SAT score is mediocre, which only exacerbates my qualms. (But I have consistently scored high on ACT practice tests)
I realize that in college I'm going to be surrounded by extremely bright students who have excelled at competitive high schools and am afraid that I will not be at the same level as they are. I have heard stories of top students failing out of college and am afraid of not being able to handle the coursework.
I have considered going to community college but have been swayed against it from my peers and teachers who tell me to "aim high." They think I'm going to go to a school like Caltech, MIT, Harvard, etc but I wouldn't even consider applying. Preferably, I'd like to attend a top liberal arts college like Williams, Reed, and Carleton, but am uncertain that, if I was accepted, I would be able to thrive academically.
Did anyone else have these fears when going to college? How do I know if I'm genuinely ready or not?
5 replies I had a conversation with last year's valedictorian's(now attends a mid-tier UC) parents and they told me that college was a lot more difficult for their child who earned all As in high school and was now earning Cs in college.
I aspire to attend an intellectual and rigorous school with top math/science programs and high graduate school placement but I wonder if I'm really prepared for such schools. I have always been at the top of my class in math but when it comes to English there are always those who are stronger writers than I.
Although I excel in math courses, my SAT score is mediocre, which only exacerbates my qualms. (But I have consistently scored high on ACT practice tests)
I realize that in college I'm going to be surrounded by extremely bright students who have excelled at competitive high schools and am afraid that I will not be at the same level as they are. I have heard stories of top students failing out of college and am afraid of not being able to handle the coursework.
I have considered going to community college but have been swayed against it from my peers and teachers who tell me to "aim high." They think I'm going to go to a school like Caltech, MIT, Harvard, etc but I wouldn't even consider applying. Preferably, I'd like to attend a top liberal arts college like Williams, Reed, and Carleton, but am uncertain that, if I was accepted, I would be able to thrive academically.
Did anyone else have these fears when going to college? How do I know if I'm genuinely ready or not?
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Replies to: How do I know if I'm ready for college?
For some students, college is easier because of the shift in grading and subjects. For others, it's a real struggle because of the responsibility, and because you can't rely on participation to get good grades anymore. It really depends on you. Back in high school I failed a couple classes and generally didn't care about my grades, after my first year of college I had a 3.9, then transferred to a great school junior year. And I know other students who went the other way, great grades in high school and struggling in college.
If you do go to a top school, expect a bit of an academic culture shock, almost. Suddenly everyone is smart. That doesn't make you dumb, that means you're being challenged, and that's a good thing. You'll probably have to change your study habits, and the adjustment might be stressful at first. But if you put in the effort it's super unlikely that you'll be failing your classes, and schools provide a lot of resources (office hours, TAs, tutoring, study groups) if you do need help.
I would say apply to the schools you want to attend. Have a couple reaches, some matches, some safeties. If you get accepted, that means someone in the admissions office thinks you're good enough for that school, and they wouldn't admit you if they didn't think you were smart enough. If you think the school is a good fit, you love the campus, and you can afford to attend, go for it.
My kid was not as academically prepared as a lot of her peers, and attends a top STEM school. In particular, her school offered no AP sciences. She worked her tail off freshman year -- a lot of the students in her class had already seen at least some of the material that was new to her. Her GPA was nothing to write home about, but she made it through and really loves it. She is a sophomore this year, and is finding that the playing field has leveled somewhat as everyone moves beyond material they may have seen before arriving on campus. She is still working super hard, but getting better results this year, too.
I'd say that the admissions committees usually know what they are doing. Take advantage of all opportunities for help when you get to campus, don't sign up for too rigorous a courseload first semester (some people poo-poo it, but I think "rate my professor" is a good resource for incoming freshman who don't know any older students to ask about rigor and professors), and work hard to stay organized.