My tip about Spanx…I get s size larger than what I might normally wear. Really the Spanx are to smooth out the “lumps and bumps”. Not really to act as a girdle. A somewhat larger size works fine. And it’s way easier to get on and off.
I also have some Hanes shapewear from Target that I really like.
Kohl’s used to carry Spanx…do they still?? They were less costly than Nordstrom.