<p>There are social skills and there are social skills.</p>
<p>When I saw the headline I thought of many people I know (who shall remain nameless) who were shy, insecure nerds in HS while the “social butterflies” ruled. Now the nerds (who were actually very smart but late bloomers) are making more money than many of the social networkers.</p>
<p>I do agree that many kids who seem very social and have many friends are not ready for the adult world with regard to showing up on time, doing the work that has to be done, and having respect for their teacher or boss. They are too busy worrying about their “image” or if they are being “dissed” to learn how to be good citizens & workers.</p>