<p>neb,</p>
<p>“But over the years, your spouse has probably tended to tell you more of the “crazy” parents stories…as her sounding board, she’s not apt to tell you about the wonderful student/parent combos, and as mentioned by other posters,”</p>
<p>No we actually talk about all of them good and bad. She goes out of her way to buy gifts for room moms who help out through the year. We are very thankful for the extra hands and help. We also keep track of students when ever possile. She remembers alot of kids, (she has a great memmory, at least she never forgets any thing I did wrong;) )and kids remember her. She had a note under her door this fall before school from a 27 year old who was finishing grad school and was showing his wife around his ol elementary. Saw my wife’s name and stopped and wrote a very nice note about how he still remembered her and who he was becoming. Really nice tears. So we do know about the goods along with the bads. Just very few talk about the goods on this site, yet each family has had a teacher or two whom have had a great impact on their child’s learning process/</p>
<p>“I think that you do tend to go a bit overboard on defend-the-teacher-everytime.”</p>
<p>Not everytime.99.9% of the time…maybe
What I am trying to do is attempt to point out other possibilities to a situation. It doesn’t mean I’m right, it means I’ve pointed out another possibility. </p>
<p>Until more details are presented, we don’t know what is reasonalbe or not. Mid’s example when explained as 30 minutes of sitting doing nothing IS a completely unreasonalbe thing for a teacher to do. However I wouldn’t feel the same way if it was only 3 minutes. details change the senario. </p>
<p>“No, the written instructions did not require the art (it was listed as a “fun idea” in the sections that listed “books & movies you also might enjoy on this topic”) Yes, he did a careful, neat job of it (albeit in pencil instead of colored markers.) And no, his parents did not usually allow him to follow only the instructions he wanted to follow. (Quite the opposite-Dad was retired marine drill sergeant…I’m sure you get the picture. First word out of their kids’ mouths was SirYesSir and Yes Mam!)”</p>
<p>Yes, but you could understand why I would ask? no? yes? details change the possibilities. </p>
<p>" And, in the later meeting with the principal, she admitted she’d judged his artwork to be “failing” quality, but the theme was A quality so she just “averaged” the two to give him a C.She also admitted that she did not take points away on papers lacking artwork. Fact was, she didn’t want to teach in the first place, she wanted to be an artist but knew that’d be hard to pay the bills. So she went for the art education degree…but instead of getting the full-time art teacher job, she got the long-term sub in a regular classroom job instead. She was way too far from what she really wanted to do, and her job performance showed it. That, I think, was the real life lesson there: if you’re not happy with what you’re doing, it’s difficult to do a good job of it." </p>
<p>No arguement here as you explained pretty clearly.</p>
<p>I’m not trying to be overly personal in my questioning statements. You can see that details clear the fog of a situation up. I think you can also see that in general terms, the questions I pose are reasonable until greater detail is given.</p>