I feel like it has come more to my attention that my roommates don’t care about me. We all moved in not knowing each other, but we needed a place to live before we all started a health program together. I feel like at the beginning we were fine. We all got along and included each other. I am locked in to a 22 month lease and we are only 5 months in and I don’t feel comfortable in my own apartment. One makes rude and snarky comments to me, while the other ignores me. I get blamed for whrn I forget to do something or one time she yelled at me for trying to help set something for all of us so they could concentrate on homework. I’m at a loss of what to do. They are so in sync with each other. They hang out all the time and study together. Even though we are all studying the same thing. I come home and lock myself in my room because I don’t feel welcome. Another instance is that one of them used to sit at my table during our classes but just got up and left and sat somewhere else. I don’t know what I should do or what I can do. I just want to feel happy. Maybe my personality is different and the fact that I have lived on my own for 5 years and they both just moved out of their parents house. I just feel lonely and like I don’t matter.
Get out of your lease, give them 2 months rent and leave
So what is the penalty if you want to get out of your lease? Will you lose your security deposit? Can you sublet? What if one of you dropped of school or wanted to move out to get married? Presumably there are ways to get of the lease and you might want to consider whether the benefits are greater than the costs.
Where you live is your center. It is the most important part of your life and emotional health. Not being happy at home will be detrimental in other parts of your life.
The thing is I see them everyday. We have every classes together. I’ve started to hang out with other groups more. Plus it’s my first time being a long distance thing not knowing anyone
Leave. Nothing you can do, because there is nothing you did that you can stop doing. The fact is everyone doesn’t like everyone, but someone will like you. Find them.
Leave asap. Before you go,give them a piece of your mind. Tell them you object to being treated like some stranger. Then leave and make sure you tell someone to ask them what you might have done wrong. So you don’t keep doing it . it’ll just be disastrous if everyone keeps hating you.
Good luck! You deserve to be happy where you live. It’s your personal paradise.
??? All of this advice is so strange. They’re not required to be best friends with you. Get over it and make friends elsewhere.