<p>You can go to college, just maybe not right away.</p>
<p>If you absolutely have to get out of state and get away from your family, then you can move to a place you want to be and get a job. Register to vote, pay rent, and start at the local community college. Pick a state with inexpensive instate tuition for the four year state schools.</p>
<p>You will be able to be admitted to a four year school and between working and going part time will eventually be able to graduate. If the instate tuition is inexpensive enough, you may be able to swing it off of loans.</p>
<p>You should also, while you are in community college, contact an attorney to start the paper work to show you have no support from your parents. If you can get this completely documented, you may be able to get financial aid on your own.</p>
<p>So, no you may not be able to go off to a four year university right this very minute, but over the course of time, you can eventually earn a degree and escape.</p>