90,000 in debt- is it worth it?

<p>@tocollege- I can’t. Like. I just can’t go through 2 extra years of secrecy. I don’t know. After I graduate, I never want to come home again and I can’t make excuses not to come back for 3 whole years. And I know many people go to in state schools and community colleges, but my state is too small, and community colleges don’t offer dorm. I don’t know I have almost two years until I graduate I’ll think of something.</p>

<p>@thumbpr1- There isn’t any abuse right now- the environment is very restrictive, but I don’t know if it’s considered abusive (and if anything did happen I’d do something about it). If whatever I have to say I say, THEN abuse is expected. And I just don’t want to be anywhere near for that.</p>