<p>“I hope we don’t pull the you’re-a-lesser-parent-for-putting-dreams-of-HYPSM-before-your-child’s-happiness card.”</p>
<p>I’m certainly guilty of doing this. Not just to HYP+SM but also to HADES-or bust parents. While I have had my “kumbaya”/“can’t we all get along?” moments over the years, I still lapse into judgement.</p>
<p>I dig that this thread has somehow managed to support/affirm jersey’s POV while simultaneously making arguments for the “intrinsic value” POV.</p>