<p>From post 115: "Came home in 8th grade from our very mediocre largely reduced school lunch public system and told us she was selected to take the ACT. She’s always been pretty strong minded. I wrote the $30 check and drove her to the test site. "</p>
<p>In this one sentence, you’ve given 3 advantages your daughter had over many other kids (although…not necessarily the kids from your D’s old public school):</p>
<p>1) The school she attended in 8th grade was a little more than mediocre in one aspect: there was some program or person that identified kids in 8th grade to take the ACT. </p>
<p>2) You were able to write a $30.00 check. You had the money and likely didn’t have to go to a bank or post office to have a money order written. Your daughter didn’t have to go to her school to have paperwork filled out for a fee waiver…only to have the guidance dept tell her there was no reason for her to take the ACT in 8th grade.</p>
<p>3) You had transportation available to drive her to the test site.</p>
<p>No one on this thread has in any way suggested you and your daughter cheated in whatever advantages you acknowlege giving her. She is very fortunate to have had you as a parent.</p>
<p>My kids have had advantages, too. No cheating, but good fortune in having college educated parents and living in a suburb with an excellent school district. Also, worked very hard and “deserved” to be admitted to the schools applied to of HYPSM (and is one is attending one of them.)</p>
<p>But Harvard, Princeton and UVA don’t think enough of the kids, who don’t have the advantages our kids have had, have been applying to their schools. And they have pinpointed EA/ED as one of the reasons. </p>
<p>“The sad truth is vision and courage and ambition are just as important as intellect in achieving these admissions.”</p>
<p>Once again, I hope your daugher will have the opportunity to meet some of the students at Harvard whose lives have been filled with vision, courage and ambition…maybe not the vision in 8th or 9th grade that they could attend an Ivy league school, but the vision, courage and ambition that eventually got them to Harvard.</p>