accepted admission, declined admission, can i reaccept?! please help!!!

<p>I applied to UCSB and was admitted. I returned my SIR telling them that I was indeed coming to their school, which I have wanted to do for years. Unfortunately, I had to deal with a family emergency - taking care of my grandmother as her health failed. She lives out of the country - in Mexico. My mother told me I would not be able to go to UCSB. So, I cancelled my SIR and let them now I would not be coming. Now, we have gotten funding from insurance to put my grandma in a home in Los Angeles and now my mom says I can attend UCSB and it would even be better because I’d be closer to my grandmother. </p>

<p>UCSB starts in about two weeks, do you think there is anyway they will let me re-accept my admission!!! I am calling them on Monday morning when the admissions offices open…does anyone have any knowledge of situations like these? Do you think I will be able to attend? Do you have any advice on how I can better my chances of getting back in? </p>

<p>Please please help me! I want to go to UCSB so bad! I am going to a community college right now and it is horrible…</p>

<p>I’d say you have no chance for fall quarter/semester (since its 2 weeks before start). After that, however, you <em>should</em> maybe have a chance. Call on Monday and possibly set up an in-person meeting with admissions.</p>

<p>Oh_aimee,</p>

<p>My first reaction was that I wish that you had asked to DEFER your enrollment for a year instead of declining enrollment altogether. For a valid reason, many schools do not have a problem with this. This is water under the bridge at this point, but perhaps you can still recover.</p>

<p>Since you had sent back your SIR originally, did you make a copy of your signed SIR? If not, it’s probably OK because UCSB should have your admissions file. The Fall quarter begins in 2 weeks, and there is still time to register for classes, but this is obviously a matter that the Admissions Office can act on with some discretion on their part – so be sincere, be nice, and be persistent. Logistically, it may be a bit of a challenge, i.e., housing, orientation, financial aid, academic advisement/counseling, etc., but just be very persevering. UCSB does not typically like admitting freshmen except in the Fall quarter, so starting in the Winter or Spring quarters may not be feasible. At worst case, you may have to continue with a community college, taking general education courses, and plan a transfer. Good luck!</p>

<p>In the UCSB Admissions Office, contact one of these three people; the first will be difficult to reach, so maybe try the other two Associate Directors:</p>

<ul>
<li><p>Christine Van Gieson, Director of Admissions
(805-893-3641 / <a href=“mailto:christine.vangieson@sa.ucsb.edu”>christine.vangieson@sa.ucsb.edu</a>; this ph# may go to her Administrative Assistant)</p></li>
<li><p>Donna Coyne, Associate Director, Application & Evaluation Services
(805-893-2329 / <a href=“mailto:donna.coyne@sa.ucsb.edu”>donna.coyne@sa.ucsb.edu</a>)</p></li>
<li><p>Lisa Przekop, Associate Director, School Services
(805-893-3873 / <a href=“mailto:lisa.przekop@sa.ucsb.edu”>lisa.przekop@sa.ucsb.edu</a>)</p></li>
</ul>

<p>Here are the general Admissions phone numbers:<br>
(805) 893-2881
(805) 893-2485</p>

<p>UCs don’t allow freshmen to defer. Give it a try, you have a shot, if not i think they’ll take you for spring.</p>

<p>Bobby100,</p>

<p>The UC System does not have a formal policy; however, this does not preclude deferment possibilities. The OP may not have a lot of leverage, but what leverage she does have might work if presented well – I’m wondering if she is URM, which may also work in her favor. No harm, no foul?</p>

<p>Here’s an extract from UC’s Admissions website:
<a href=“http://www.universityofcalifornia.edu/educators/counselors/adminfo/transfer/advising/answers/applying.html#6[/url]”>http://www.universityofcalifornia.edu/educators/counselors/adminfo/transfer/advising/answers/applying.html#6&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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<p>I dont want to sound disrespectful, but does your life revolve around your grandmother ? First you couldn’t go to UCSB because grandmother is not in good health in Mexico, now her insurance lets her move to socal (not sure how that works) and you can go to your school so you canbe close to her. It is so admirable but is it customary in your culture for a 3rd generation (grand daughter) to have to take care of the 1st generation (grandmother) even if ones has to abandon a school of one’s dream ? What about your mother, doesn’t she has responsibility to look after your welfare as well as her mother’s ?</p>

<p>Family’s more important than college. Much more important.</p>

<p>Colleges reward persistence and initiative. Go in person to UCSB’s admissions office, explain your position, and if you have copies of those SIRs, bring them along. Tell them everything, that it’s been your dream to attend, you were worried you couldn’t because of your grandmother, and now you’d like to after all. Most colleges have some spots open up just before orientation, definitely give it a shot.</p>

<p>I can assure you that your odds will go up by being there in person to plead your case. I hope you’re not all the way across the country. Calling them is a start, but I would call to try to set up an appointment - as an admitted student with some questions, is what i’d tell the secretary. “Pressing the flesh” has tilted the scales in my favor many times.</p>

<p>I agree with yourworld to a certain extent. We do not know the circumstances of his/her’s grandmother though. Perhaps they were very close. Maybe the mother has a physics condition and cannot help her mother? I agree though if the mother could look after her grandmother, it is unfair for her to not let her child go to college, a great one in fact, so they can help their grandma.</p>

<p>Not having seen any reply from OP, I think this may have been a made-up post, even though it was convincing. The part that was questionable for me is what Mexican insurance company will fund an insured elderly to live in another country (Los Angeles) ? Also this is only post from OP.</p>