Advice anyone?

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<p>Hi! Can someone tell me how to deal with the situation that im in?</p>

<p>Two of my really good friends have been going out. Now they are in fight. what should i do? i think the guy was right but he has apoligized to her, wrote her a note and even cooked her brownies lol. but she is not even talking to him. im not gonna go into details but basically he made her feel that she cant trust him. how should i approach the situation, i just want them both to be happy. the guy really feels like he loves her and that they really have something special. it is beyond my mind how that is possible with a high school kid, but thats what he thinks. should i just let them work it out? or should i intervene and say something? i know the guy knows i am on his side but i dont want to say something to her and jepordize my relationship with her. i just want them both to be happy.</p>

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<p>stay out of it…best advice…</p>

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<p>Do not intervene. If one of them asks you a direct question, answer truthfully. Other than that, do not get involved.</p>

<p>I know you want to help but the best way to help in this case is to let them work it out themselves. Answer if asked, but don’t volunteer any info, to either of them. Don’t take sides. I did that once and regretted it. As much as you think you know, you really don’t know all the details of what went down between them.</p>