Himom- or when the distant sib thinks the one in charge is “stealing” from the future estate. “Why can’t you find an aide for $6 an hour like my friend has?” (because mom lives in DC and nobody works for $6 an hour). “Why does dad need PT three times a week?” (Because without it he won’t be able to lift his head to eat or swallow).
Why do you need to hire people over the weekend, why did the fuel bill go up so much, why why why.