<p>Obviously if it were my son / daughter it’d be a dif story because we are irrational when it comes to our own children. That is not a valid counterpoint though.</p>
<p>My other belief is that we should treat other how we want to be treated.</p>
<p>That’s true, we should. And that idea came from the bible, but the problem is that no one does that. And yes I mean no one in the entire world at all times treats others how they want to be treated.</p>
<p>At all times, no, but that doesn’t mean you should just quit trying and not do the right thing.</p>
<p>Thanks for all of the great responses. Reading all of the responses made the decision a lot easier. </p>
<p>I decided to talk to my friend. She knows me well and knows I wouldn’t do anything to “turn on” a girl who I know has a boyfriend and said said she was disappointed with her friend for sending the nude pic. She thanked me for telling her and she is going to tell the fianc</p>
<p>You did the right thing. Hopefully she does tell the fianc</p>
<p>It’s not that. I just know that many many men cheat in their early years and then stop it later on and I just… he married her for a reason and vice versa surely he courted her for at least a year or two prior to being married.</p>
<p>Who cares if they stop later on? A cheater is a cheater. Their intended deserves to know. And plenty DO cheat later on. People who cheat are broken inside, and there is just no excuse.</p>
<p>unfriend her. she will get the message loud and clear.</p>
<p>You should definitely unfriend her. Do you WANT to have any contact, even on FB, with a person like this? It doesn’t sound like it.</p>
<p>Do not give her any further opportunity to make you a pawn in whatever games she is playing.</p>
<p>I did unfriend her. It’s really not worth it to talk with somebody like that.</p>
<p>^Congrats on wise decision!</p>