<p>Goldenpooch, the question isn’t what I would do under certain circumstances, it is where the obligations of the insurance company end vs. where I am making a choice to buy something that goes beyond what the insurance company provides. </p>
<p>I’ll give you a relatively simple example. When my son was born, our insurance policy would pay only for a shared room at the hospital, but my husband wanted to be able to spend the night with me and the new baby in the room – so we agreed that we would ask for a private room if available. We knew that it would cost extra- we discussed the cost and agreed that we were willing to pay it. </p>
<p>I can think of a lot of things that my insurance can’t or won’t pay for. Some are things that go outside the bounds of traditional or accepted medicine (such as experimental procedures), and some are things that I would consider extra luxuries or frills, like that private room at the hospital. </p>
<p>That’s one reason I like having an HSA – I see it as a way that I can bank dollars that would otherwise have gone to higher premiums, to use if I want things that go beyond what insurance provides. I realize that in certain circumstances that could get very expensive – the private room might have cost us around $200 (I don’t remember, but we didn’t have much money in those days so we wouldn’t have gone with that option if the cost had seemed out of line). On the other hand, the cost to get surgery from a well-respected specialist at a top-of-the-line hospital as opposed to getting the same type of surgery from a less experienced surgeon at a less well-regarded hospital might be tens or hundreds of thousand of dollars.</p>
<p>I can see a reason to make that choice. I just can’t see any reason why I would expect my insurance company to pay for a <em>choice</em> I make. Another analogy: my kids were entitled to Cal grants, but only if they attended college in California. They both initially chose to attend schools out of state, so they lost their Cal grants. I wasn’t looking for ways to force the state to give us that money to take to the college of our choice - I understood that the system had rules and limits. </p>
<p>What I buy from the insurance company is a policy that will provide me medical care with doctors and facilities within the insurance network. They get to decide the network. I have a right to expect that there network will be comprehensive enough to meet my medical needs, and that there will be competent and qualified doctors within the network. But that’s it: if they can provide me with adequate medical care but I want better-than-adequate care, it may be on me to pay for it. </p>
<p>I find it somewhat inconsistent that you express very expensive medical “tastes” (you want Cedars Sinai and UCLA medical center) – but at the same time you are very concerned about premium levels. If the insurance companies are going to pay out $X in claims, they need to collect $X+ 25% in premium dollars to cover their administrative costs. So let’s say that a company expects to pay out $2 million in claims and has 30,000 subscribers. So the insurance company will want to collect $2.5 million in premium dollars – and to make that all work, they will need an average of $8,333 per subscriber. (Obviously these are made up numbers- I have no idea what any company really pays or how many customers they have). Every decision they make which increases their costs is something that will necessarily be passed to the subscribers in premiums. </p>
<p>I understand why you want to be able to go to Cedars if you get sick. I just don’t understand why you expect me to pay for that over a less-expensive hospital.</p>
<p>You wrote:
Most of us don’t have the financial ability get the “very best” of anything. Many, many people are very grateful if they can just be afforded the basics. That isn’t to say the “very best” is a bad thing-- but it generally is something that people of means pay extra for.</p>