<p>Maybe her daughter won’t seek CC, but…
My kids never used CC; but one of mine asked me if I was ‘mominva’.
I was found when said child Googled something about her college and found a link to something I posted here!</p>
<p>I think the OP is more concerned that she might not be able to claim having a daughter at Harvard than anything actually having to do with the boy.</p>
<p>Ouch.
Maybe this thread has out-lasted any usefulness it might have to the OP… And maybe CC overall, in relation to her D, and other parenting and social issues in her family…</p>
<p>To me, fm, you posted this here, have sent many PM’s, have started a number of threads abut your D. I m not sure CC, even Parents Cafe, is really meant for the personal purpose you intend. </p>
<p>Meant kindly and practically, I think that, while you seem to know yourself, but maybe a professional counselor would be in order?? To discuss your issues, your situation with your D, your day-to-day challenges?? You keep coming back here, provoking others to insult you, letting them do that. That is not healthy. Please take care of yourself!!!</p>
<p>@MWC ^^ Exactly what I’m referring to in post #200. Right on cue.</p>
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Do you think she’d mind you sharing so much about her here, though, and would that be a concern for you?</p>
<p>^ Probably not any more, as she seems to be finished here. It’s not so much what she revealed, but the cyberbulling that ensued.</p>
<p>The daughter is planning on committing statutory rape, with the mother’s consent.
I agree that this prolonged discussion belongs in a therapist’s or lawyer’s office, and not on CC, but I do not agree that to point out that fact is cyberbullying.</p>
<p>Hope all works out, FM. So far, with all of your worrying about this relationship, nothing untoward has actually occurred. Crossing fingers that it remains so…</p>
<p>Just another case of bullying on CC…Forums are a great platform for people who never got over their mean girl mentality from middle school.</p>
<p>Faux…Stand firm and don’t allow anything to happen that YOU are not comfortable with. Your daughter will still love you even when you say no and if she doesn’t than she could discuss that on the therapy couch.</p>
<p>“I think the OP is more concerned that she might not be able to claim having a daughter at Harvard than anything actually having to do with the boy.”</p>
<p>This is not cyberbullying? I’m not going to waste my time pointing out the many more below the belt posts on this thread. If your comments can’t be constructive, what is the point? You are easily entertained.</p>
<p>OhioMom, there are posters who do this all the time to the point that you could predict it based upon the well orchestrated posts of very specific posters. They just can’t help themselves…life is dull behind a computer screen.</p>
<p>In the midst of acrimony, some useful information was transmitted to the OP. Thread has outlived its usefulness.</p>