<p>Please encourage your DH to take the day off and accompany you. If ever there was a time for family unity/support, this is it.</p>
<p>^^^Only if that’s what bringing DH along will provide. If not, skip it.</p>
<p>If this is not a time that a spouse can provide support and the family can give the appearance of unity to the court, that is really unfortunate.</p>
<p>He was planning to be there for sentencing.</p>
<p>Fauxmaven - I just want to rub your back and give you support. So sorry that you are going through this. Enjoy every minute with your son.</p>
<p>FM,
when is your son’s court date? We will all be holding your hand.</p>
<p>Arraignment is on this Monday.</p>
<p>fauxmaven, I’ll be thinking of you and sending good vibes to both you and your son.</p>
<p>You have been in my thoughts all week. I’m so sorry for your pain.</p>
<p>Wondering if other people are in a similar place as I am out in CC Land. I did meet another mom last week who has a son in jail.It was nice to meet another in my shoes, although I wouldn’t wish this on anyone.My stomach problems have disappeared since I started sharing about this. I don’t have to take medicine for my stomach anymore. I feel closer to my son than ever,and seeing him every day is nice.</p>
<p>found these on the web
[Yahoo</a>! Groups](<a href=“Yahoo | Mail, Weather, Search, Politics, News, Finance, Sports & Videos”>Yahoo | Mail, Weather, Search, Politics, News, Finance, Sports & Videos)
[Mothers</a> of Incarcerated Sons Society, Inc. - (M.I.S.S.) Support Group](<a href=“http://www.mothersofinmates.org/]Mothers”>http://www.mothersofinmates.org/)
[Families</a> of Prisoners](<a href=“http://crime.about.com/od/prison_families/Families_of_Prisoners.htm]Families”>Crime and Punishment)
[Prison</a> Talk - Prison Information and Inmate Support Community](<a href=“http://www.prisontalk.com/]Prison”>http://www.prisontalk.com/)
[DailyStrength</a> Groups - Parents of Prisoners](<a href=“Support Groups | DailyStrength”>Parents of Prisoners Support Groups Online | DailyStrength)
[Support</a> Groups for Families of Prisoners | eHow.com](<a href=“http://www.ehow.com/info_8172632_support-groups-families-prisoners.html]Support”>http://www.ehow.com/info_8172632_support-groups-families-prisoners.html)
[Parents</a>, spouses of prisoners need to be heard, say local women](<a href=“http://tdn.com/lifestyles/parents-spouses-of-prisoners-need-to-be-heard-say-local/article_23a0232c-867e-11e1-816e-001a4bcf887a.html]Parents”>http://tdn.com/lifestyles/parents-spouses-of-prisoners-need-to-be-heard-say-local/article_23a0232c-867e-11e1-816e-001a4bcf887a.html)
[url=<a href=“prisonfamiliesofnewyork.org”>prisonfamiliesofnewyork.org]Prison</a> Families of New York - Strengthening Familes - Resource Development<a href=“this%20is%20in%20NY”>/url</a></p>
<p>Not necessary to send me a PM thank you, Fauxmaven. Front channel is preferred as my PMs get full</p>
<p>Thanks,for the sites jym.</p>
<p>You are most welcome. Best of luck with this difficult situation.</p>
<p>Will be thinking of you and your family on Monday. Hugs and prayers.</p>
<p>Thinking of you fauxmaven. I am hoping for the most positive outcome tomorrow for your dear son. You will be in my thoughts all day tomorrow.</p>
<p>Same here, Fauxmaven. Good thoughts coming your way.</p>
<p>FM, I will be thinking of you tomorrow. Please come here later tomorrow and let us know how it goes. Hopefully the judge will be swayed by the message of this season and by the obvious family support for your son, and not come down on him too hard. </p>
<p>With you in spirit…</p>
<p>Thinking of you tonight - I hope you feel our collective caring and support for you.</p>
<p>prayers lifted for you and your family</p>
<p>Sending you strength!</p>