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<p>First off, I certainly hope she is going to work that shoe-tying angle into her college application! It’s a hook. Second, my DD also had a firm sense of fashion that included only wearing her brother’s clothes for a while in the preschool era, then switching to a pink-only phase, and then transitioning into a neon phase and there were stripes and so forth along the way. Her acute sense of what she would and wouldn’t wear has stayed with her. When she became very busty on top, I (who am average in size) worried about the whole cleavage thing and she set me straight that she had nothing to be ashamed of and that she wasn’t going to sacrifice wearing clothes she liked. She has never had a problem because she’s a modest girl in character and guys realize that right away. You can show nothing but if your attitude is one of flaunting your sexuality, guys will pick up on that, and you can wear a modest outfit that still shows cleavage and not be flaunting sexuality if your attitude is one of “I’m comfortable with who I am, deal with it and respect me because that’s what I deserve.”</p>