<p>she set me straight that she had nothing to be ashamed of and that she wasn’t going to sacrifice wearing clothes she liked</p>
<p>Good for her.
You must have given her support for getting a strong sense of herself.</p>
<p>My oldest is very small boned and very busty & in high school, she wore baggy tshirts- & jeans with holes from where the ponies bit- now she dresses better- but has a limited budget without time to shop around, so she wears what she finds at consignment- so it is hit and miss.</p>
<p>My younger daughter who never had a pink and purple stage and went years ( pretty much till high school), till she wore a dress, * knows* what she likes and doesn’t like.
She is more stunning than I would think could be related to me, but I admit I occasionally wondered if that would be the case when she was grown, after seeing the photos of now, very beautiful models and actresses, who were plain or androgynous looking when they were children.</p>
<p>I am often asked if she models & I just laugh, cause she wouldn’t even let * me* take a picture of her, let alone have people poke and prod her all day.</p>
<p>She does have pictures of herself at prom and of her friends and I think all the girls look appropriate, most have long dresses, some are cut to between the breasts, but the breasts themselves are covered- I think they all look great!.</p>