all girls want is money?

[Kenshinsan]

<p>^^^Thank You VERY MUCH. Your post is something I feel every guy should read.(I’m not being sarcastic) I am someone that can change my mind but I pay attention to detail and explanation or I find too many loopholes in an idea and I don’t feel its legitimate. Your post explains what I have seen in my life but never really been able to put into words.</p>

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@BedHead

Have you ever had a really nice girl throw herself at you, but you just weren’t interested? If you haven’t, I’d wager you haven’t noticed it was happening or you are not attractive to girls.

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<p>I admittedly am VERY bad at telling when a girl likes me. There have been instances where girls have been very nice and only months later when I’m told they had a crush on me, I’m like W T F? I thought she was just being nice. I don’t think I’m ugly and no girl has ever said I am. I am usually placed in the average-above average range. I have been told I’m kinda handsome. But who knows I could be ugly. I asked a girl that happens to be my best friend and she says I have a friendly face. Whatever you take that to mean.</p>

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@BedHead

Do you think that women find guys to be straightforward? Do you know how many guys say XYZ and do ABC? There are all sorts of reasons why people do this, and it runs the range from that they are absolute liars (and I am sure this happens a lot less than the other things) to the fact that they are absolutely unaware of themselves and don’t recognize the contradictions to the fact that in a given situation with no malice aforethought they’ll tell you what they think you want to hear. Duh!

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<p>True, shoulda realized this.</p>

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@BedHead

Women like men who are confident and who don’t ask for permission. (American guys often think “wow, I do everything she wants me to do, why doesn’t she like me?” This is often what guys are talking about when they say love and respect. But the fact is women want guys to do what the guys want to do, so long as the guys are cool and expansive and fun and involve the women in their big adventure and make some things shared. Let me give you an example: A date: What do you think makes a bigger impression on a woman: “Where would you like to go – would that French restaurant be okay?”

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<p>This is exactly how I act. I always thought asking for the girls input and asking where she wants to go is better, I thought if I did it the more straightforward way they would be like “why is he trying to tell me what to do and why is he being so assertive” My best friend thats a girl says I am too nice and I need to be a little more assertive, but I can’t help it, thats how I was raised.</p>

<p>Being nice never seemed to be what girls liked so its only recently in high school where acting like an ******* seemed to yield better results, but I HATE acting that way. </p>

<p>I will try putting into action what you said. I admit I am a little bitter, but still a nice guy. :)</p>